The Art of the Bed Chamber
There’s something about water that’s so magical. I suppose we spent our first 9 months in water and are made of 70%water. I can stare into the sea for hours. It’s just water, just big blue space, but there are so many blues, so many greens, so many sparkles. Feeling connected to the ocean is like being connected to the divine omnipotent mother, the all giving and loving, both gentle and furious entity that creates life.
Some people know no other way to relate to others than to use them. We can’t change that. Don’t be afraid to make your boundaries clear because of fear of rejection. If you love someone who just wants to take from you, you will never benefit from this. If you make it clear they need to respect you and they punish you for it, let them leave. You will never flourish while a vampire is feeding on you. #lovecoach #sexcoach
The ancient Taoists knew that smiling is the secret to longevity and health. That’s because smiling to ourselves is literally basking in love; you become your own best friend. Living with an inner smile is to live in harmony with yourself. #taoism #mantakchia #innersmile #selflove #sextips #selflovetips
Uncomfortable places are a chance to move on to the next level. This is especially the case with emotions. Do you feel yourself reacting to others emotional expression? Wanting them to stop spreading negativity? What’s your response to that emotion? Emotions are messengers. Fear is there to teach us and keep us safe. Anger reminds us to have healthy boundaries. The emotions we condemn are in a sense the most important....
Emotions are messengers that give us our direction in life. By ignoring and repressing difficult emotions, we extend our pain becauuse we don’t learn the lesson. Embrace your anger, fear and sadness. Thank them for the message. Then Live your life to avoid experiencing feelings you don’t like. There are no good or bad emotions. Every emotion is your friend. #femalesexuality #sexualhealing #nofap #pussypower #youdeservepleasure
Yet as humans we do and we rush through sex in a desperate bid to relieve our emotional pressures, rather than slowing down,breathing and inviting the incredible resource that is our life force energy to flow into our body and rejuvenate us. Have you ever tried slowing your self-pleasuring right down to examine and analyse what you are feeling? Yes! This is the perfect way to heal, grow and learn.
How much love do you give yourself? How do you care for yourself? How often do you tell yourself “I love you?” Society tells us that loving ourselves is selfish, yet if we aren’t in a relationship of self love, how can we show others love? Truly you will never be complete until you fall truly, madly and deeply in love with every part of yourself that anyone ever teased you about. Only by embracing our own quirkiness are we able to be free to love ourselves and thereby free to love others. 💞