be gentle. fill yourself up with love instead of hate. fill yourself up with art, books, knowledge, experiences. surround yourself with people that have nothing but love to give. this things, they are important. they will help you learn how to love
Quite possibly, this is the cruelest thing that you could do to someone. Particularly when you don't understand it or only know part of the truth (at best), anyway. Let people live; let people learn. (Those are not my words but well said.
And I think the saddest thing is how it is so much easier go just not say anything at all JB: Why is it so hard to express and say what we are really feeling? Why do we wait till it is too late? Life is so short.