Anyone can have a child and call themselves a parent. A real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish needs and wants. People shouldn't pretend they are the best parent when someone else is raising their child
It is unjust that some children have to put up with so much just because they are biologically connected to a person. I would much rather have a dead-beat parent than a semi-involved mom that harms her kid and is too damn selfish to see it.
I will do anything to protect my children and put them in life and have given up a lot to ensure that they know that ~ if you refuse to do that then please don't ever mistake yourself as a "parent". you are nothing more than sperm donor.
Walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There...