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TORY ELETTO | Marriage and Family Therapist on Instagram: "I hate to be the one to tell you this, but people won’t be able to meet our needs when we are reactive. I know, I know, I wish they could. I wish we could. But reactivity breeds more reactivity because it’s coming from a wounded place. 

We are not our reactivity, we are the very important human underneath. But we are responsible for our reactivity, because it’s often that kind of functioning that can take over and ruin a great relationship. 

Our reactivity is essentially our worth slipping out of our hands, and attaching on to another. And the craziest part about it is it’s often at a moment when we recognize that someone is struggling to see us. 

The solution? Reactivity is an invitation for a big huge pause. Self soothe. Write
TORY ELETTO | Marriage and Family Therapist on Instagram: "I hate to be the one to tell you this, but people won’t be able to meet our needs when we are reactive. I know, I know, I wish they could. I wish we could. But reactivity breeds more reactivity because it’s coming from a wounded place. We are not our reactivity, we are the very important human underneath. But we are responsible for our reactivity, because it’s often that kind of functioning that can take over and ruin a great relationship. Our reactivity is essentially our worth slipping out of our hands, and attaching on to another. And the craziest part about it is it’s often at a moment when we recognize that someone is struggling to see us. The solution? Reactivity is an invitation for a big huge pause. Self soothe. Write
Julie Menanno | The Secure Relationship | Relationship Expert on Instagram: "Questions welcomed ❤️

#relationshipadvice #relationshipproblems #relationshipissues #relationshiprules #relationshipadviceformen #relationshipadviceforwomen #relationshiptherapy #relationshipcounselling #relationshiptherapist #relationshipcounselor #relationshipcoaching #relationshipcoachingforwomen #relationshipcoachingformen #couplestherapy #couplestherapist #couplescounseling #couplescounselling #couplescoach #couplescoaching #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #marriageadvice #datingtips #attached #samesexmarriage #christiancouples" Dating Tips, Relationship Rules, Relationship Advice, Relationship Issues, Relationship Problems, Relationship Therapy, Attachment Theory, Attachment, Attachment Styles
Julie Menanno | The Secure Relationship | Relationship Expert on Instagram: "Questions welcomed ❤️ #relationshipadvice #relationshipproblems #relationshipissues #relationshiprules #relationshipadviceformen #relationshipadviceforwomen #relationshiptherapy #relationshipcounselling #relationshiptherapist #relationshipcounselor #relationshipcoaching #relationshipcoachingforwomen #relationshipcoachingformen #couplestherapy #couplestherapist #couplescounseling #couplescounselling #couplescoach #couplescoaching #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #marriageadvice #datingtips #attached #samesexmarriage #christiancouples"
no shame with cj | Coach & Mentor on Instagram: "Stop waiting around for things to change. 
You need to take charge of change. 

You are worthy.

You deserve more.

Tomorrow is not a guarantee.

#selfworth #selflove #heartbreak #difficultrelationships #noshamewithcj" You Take, Truth, Change, Express, Tv, Tvs, Make It Yourself
no shame with cj | Coach & Mentor on Instagram: "Stop waiting around for things to change. You need to take charge of change. You are worthy. You deserve more. Tomorrow is not a guarantee. #selfworth #selflove #heartbreak #difficultrelationships #noshamewithcj"
The Mastery of Self on Instagram: "The Mastery of Self is a book by don Miguel Ruiz Jr., published by Hierophant Publishing. See link in our BIO for an excerpt from The Mastery of Self OR visit the link below! http://www.hierophantpublishing.com/mastery-self-don-miguel  . . #love  #lifequotes #relationships #book #gentlereminder" Instagram, Reading, Quotes, Person, Bio, Ruiz, Relationship, Self, Junior
The Mastery of Self on Instagram: "The Mastery of Self is a book by don Miguel Ruiz Jr., published by Hierophant Publishing. See link in our BIO for an excerpt from The Mastery of Self OR visit the link below! http://www.hierophantpublishing.com/mastery-self-don-miguel . . #love #lifequotes #relationships #book #gentlereminder"
Lauren Levi | Poetry on Instagram: "Vulnerability. My love language is vulnerability. I believe love is a safe place to rest our wounds whilst we continue to try to stitch them up. 

What is your love language?

#poetry #poem #love #lovepoem #lovequotes #lgbt #poetrycommunity" Love Quotes, Relationships, Poems, When You Realize, Poetry Poem, Love Languages, Love Poems, Vulnerability
Lauren Levi | Poetry on Instagram: "Vulnerability. My love language is vulnerability. I believe love is a safe place to rest our wounds whilst we continue to try to stitch them up. What is your love language? #poetry #poem #love #lovepoem #lovequotes #lgbt #poetrycommunity"
Thoughts, Believe, Family, First Love, Let It Be, Rejoice, In This Moment
Diego Perez on Instagram: "Leave a 💙 if this set resonates. 

Sending love to all 🙏🏽☀️ 

#lighter #communication #couplegoals #growth #relationshipquotes #relationshipgoals" Relationship Quotes, Worth, Personal Growth, Growth, Content, Goals
Diego Perez on Instagram: "Leave a 💙 if this set resonates. Sending love to all 🙏🏽☀️ #lighter #communication #couplegoals #growth #relationshipquotes #relationshipgoals"
Sadaf Siddiqi on Instagram: "Believe it or not, we experience hundreds of emotions every single day. 

As a psychotherapist, I wish we all learned the tools to manage these experiences as children so that by the time we’re adults, we’ve already had plenty of practice.

It’s never too late to learn though and you can absolutely rewire your brain to process and respond (instead of react) during difficult times. 

Which one is the hardest for you to do? For me, the second one is something I’ve had to practice a lot for it to become a natural part of my response pattern." Self Help, Psychotherapist, Healthy Relationship Advice, Therapist, Advice
Sadaf Siddiqi on Instagram: "Believe it or not, we experience hundreds of emotions every single day. As a psychotherapist, I wish we all learned the tools to manage these experiences as children so that by the time we’re adults, we’ve already had plenty of practice. It’s never too late to learn though and you can absolutely rewire your brain to process and respond (instead of react) during difficult times. Which one is the hardest for you to do? For me, the second one is something I’ve had to practice a lot for it to become a natural part of my response pattern."