This forever: “When I loved myself enough, I began leaving everything that wasn’t healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits-anything that kept me small. My judgment called it disloyal.
If you are asking yourself (and your friends), "Am I really a writer? Am I really an artist? Chances are, you are. The counterfeit innovator is wildly self-confident. The real one is scared to death." (Steven Pressfield, The Art of War)