25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist Dont feel sorry for me. I mean, who really got the raw end of the deal here? I only lost you: a lying, frightened, using and abusive poor excuse for a human being. And you lost me.
Your day is coming, you fat lying, controlling, manipulating, insecure bitch. How pathetic that the only way you can get a man is to take advantage of him at his lowest point and then blackmail him into staying with you. What goes around comes around.
The time just before we fully recover is the trickiest time for us, because it's the time when we still feel the emotional pull, and it's the time when we need gentle but firm parenting from ourselves to bring us back to the reality of the situation.
We feel angry and embarrassed when we are sucked in by someone who lies and manipulates. We resent the time, energy and love we offered them in good faith because it was all for nothing. They don& even appreciate what they took from us because it is.